L ike many other expectant parents of the 21st century who deliberately choose not to know the gender of their unborn baby, my wife and I cannot help but picture what it would be like to have both a boy and a girl. Not at the same time mind you – we picture having a baby boy and then we picture life with a baby girl. We know for a fact that we’re not having twins, so we won’t be rehashing that old and tired TV plotline of getting a big surprise in the delivery room.